WanderGays sounds like it could exist in the Marvel universe, so surely we’re entitled to a solid origin story, too. Ours is a bit more conventional, though, and entirely on brand for a pair of millennials – thanks, Hinge! Serendipitously, our time in Alabama aligned quite like the stars – and what good gays can argue with the astrology of it all. The famous last words were uttered (just looking for fun, nothing serious) but things went rogue, as they tend to do.
Fast forward a few months, and Sam’s new job wanted her to relocate to Denver, CO. Denver sounded like an adventure, so we packed up Sam’s things and hit the road. Mariya assisted with the move – the uhauling came a bit later (patience is a virtue we’re working on).
Three months into Sam’s 6-month lease, we decided the cold was not for us. It was -12 degrees Fahrenheit for over a week straight. Snow is pretty but not pretty enough to endure the freezing temperatures. We decided to chase the sun and spend Thanksgiving with Mariya’s family in San Diego. One night, we were fairly tipsy at a bar in Mission beach, and Sam boldly said “move to Thailand with me.” You see, Sam had lived in Thailand for four years and had only been back in the States for a little over a year. So, the question wasn’t entirely outrageous – still, Mariya’s response was “are you drunk?”
Not only did we wake up with hangovers the next mornings, but we obviously had to discuss moving to Thailand. On the list of things to discuss after a night out drinking, this was by far not the worst. We talked over the logistics, wondering if it could really work. We both work remote, so we could continue our jobs from anywhere. Sam’s attitude was very much – if we don’t like it, we can come back. Few things in life are permanent – so we decided what the hell. Let’s go (after Sam’s lease was up, of course, we are responsible adults)!
We put all of our stuff in storage in March of 2022, said our see ya laters, and took off. It’s been a whirlwind of an experience. We’ve had mishaps and misadventures, redefined our beliefs on success and happiness, and grown, individually and closer together. We’ve explored 16 countries, with even more on our list. Currently, there is no end in sight. We invite you to come along for the journey – whether it be for the jokes, tips, or messy stories – we love having you here!
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